The Path to Your Self
Have you stopped suffering, but still haven't started living?
Learn to hear your true "Wants", distinguish them from imposed "Shoulds", and turn your dreams into reality. The second course on the path to a happy and meaningful life.
For graduates of Course 1 — the next, most exciting stage of your journey.
Practical tools — from finding desires to building healthy relationships.
From "survival" to "Life" — move from a state of calm to genuine joy.
This course is your next step if you:
Have mastered the basic skills of Course 1
and are ready to move forward, from "zero" to "plus".
Often don't know what you want:
you feel apathy, boredom, and your life seems "grey" and meaningless.
Are buried under others' "Shoulds" and "Musts":
you live with a constant sense of duty to family, work, society, but not to yourself.
Are afraid of your own desires:
you consider them "selfish", "wrong", or "unachievable" and prefer not to dream at all.
Start many things, but never finish anything,
losing motivation along the way.
Suffer in relationships,
because you are constantly disappointed in people or sacrifice yourself for their sake.
If you feel that you've gotten rid of acute pain, but haven't yet found the vibrant colors of LIFE — this course will give you the palette and brushes to paint your own picture of the world.
Imagine for a minute that you can...
Wake up every morning with a clear feeling of "I Want!",
that ignites you and fills your day with meaning.
Easily distinguish your authentic desires
from those imposed on you by your parents, society, or your fears.
Make big life decisions
(about work, relationships, moving) confidently and without agonizing doubts.
Build deep and honest relationships,
based on reality, not on illusions and "filled-in" images.
Turn your life from a series of obligations
into an exciting adventure, full of exploration and discovery.
Feel not just "calm",
but a true, vibrant joy from the very process of life.
This is not an innate talent. It is the result of mastering concrete skills for finding and realizing your true desires.
Your step-by-step path to yourself in 7 Levels
This course will guide you from the first timid "wants" to building a whole, meaningful, and joyful life.
Online Course 2
Finding and Realizing Your True Desires
Goal:
To learn how to find and realize your true desires and dreams.
As we free ourselves from suffering, more free time and life energy become available. Where to direct this energy and free time? Of course, to the realization of our joyful desires, which affect the fullness of our lives and the feeling of happiness.
Course Topics
Level 1
(Free)
You will embark on an "archaeological expedition" into yourself to excavate and revive your authentic, long-forgotten "Wants."
Step 1: The Case of the Missing Desires: How We Were Taught to Want the "Right" Things
Step 2: Energizing Desires and Vampire Desires: How to Tell Your "Want" from Someone Else's "Should"
Step 3: What to Do When You Don't Want Anything? A Practical Guide to Escaping Apathy
Step 4: The Desire Resuscitation Technique: How to Jump-Start Your Inner Engine in a Slump
Step 5: "What If I Want Something Bad?": How to Stop Fearing Your "Dark" Desires
Level 2
(Free)
You will build a bridge across the abyss between your dreams and reality, learning to protect your desires from inner saboteurs and turn them into action.
Step 1: The Desire Filter: A Three-Step Method for Choosing Your True Path
Step 2: How to Make Decisions You Won't Regret: A Technology Based on Joy
Step 3: Heart and Mind: How to Align Your Desires with Common Sense
Step 4: How to Say "No" to Your Inner "Debts": A Technique for Eliminating Vampire Desires
Step 5: From Dream to Reality: 5 Practical Rules for Realizing Your Desires
Level 3
You will move from the psychology of an "achiever" to that of a "gourmet," learning to savor the process of life and extract 100% of the joy from every moment.
Step 1: The Power of Anticipation: How to Enjoy Your Desires Before They Even Come True
Step 2: Pure Desires: How to Let Yourself Dream Big Without Fearing Disappointment
Step 3: The Art of the Pause: How to Savor Your Desires and Get the Most Out of Them
Step 4: The "Best Dessert" Rule: Why It's Good to Leave the Party at Its Peak
Level 4
You will transition from a "gatherer" of existing desires to a "creator," learning to consciously form and cultivate new, beautiful, and useful motivations.
Step 1: Advanced Practice: How to "Graft" New Desires and Strengthen Existing Ones
Step 2: Desires About Desires: The Master Level of Managing Your Motivation
Step 3: "The Desire Reboot": An Advanced Technique for Breaking Out of a Creative Rut
Step 4: Idea-Traps: How to Recognize When Your Dream Has Become a Prison
Step 5: Creating Your "Language of Joy": Why You Should Name Your Unique Positive States
Level 5
You will learn to apply all your skills to the most complex area of life — relationships — and build deep, honest connections based on reality, not illusions.
Level 6
You will learn to be not a sprinter, but a wise marathon runner in life, developing a long-term strategy for your personal evolution without burnout.
Step 1: The Problem of Abundant Choice: What to Do When You Want Everything at Once
Step 2: The Buffet Syndrome: How to Embrace Infinite Choice Without Fearing Missed Opportunities
Step 3: The "Plan B" Technique: How to Stop Fearing Failure and Start Acting More Boldly
Step 4: Cyclone Desires: How to Find the One Goal That Powers Your Entire Life
Step 5: The "Binge" Effect: Why the First Steps to Freedom Can Be Excessive
Step 6: Why You Shouldn't Pull a Carrot by Its Greens: The Art of Slow and Irreversible Change
Level 7
You will gain the ultimate freedom — the freedom to think for yourself — learning to create your own rules for life instead of being a captive of others' dogmas.
Step 1: Self-Overcoming or Self-Coercion? How to Achieve Goals Without Losing Joy
Step 2: The Desire to Explore: How to Turn Self-Development from a Chore into a Thrilling Adventure
Step 3: Why Self-Development Is a "War": How to Defeat Your Inner "Saboteurs"
Step 4: Freedom to Desire = Freedom to Think: Why Nothing Is Possible Without Liberation from Dogmas
Step 5: Your Master's Path: How to Continue Growing After the Course Ends
This is not a "wish-fulfillment marathon".
This is a systematic work with their source.
Depth, not superficiality
We will not be "visualizing" and "sending requests to the Universe". We will work with the deep-seated beliefs, fears, and habits that block your desires.
The balance of "Heart" and "Mind"
We learn not to blindly follow every "want", but to align our desires with common sense, turning dreams into realistic plans.
Freedom, not new rules
Our goal is not to give you a new list of "right" desires. Our goal is to give you the tools so that you can find what is right specifically for you.
A logical continuation of Course 1
This course perfectly complements and expands the skills acquired in the first course, taking you to the next level of mastery.
Choose your path to a fulfilling and meaningful life
You have already laid the foundation of freedom from suffering. Now it's time to build the home of your dreams on it.
Your most vibrant life is on the other side of your "shoulds".
Enough living by others' rules and waiting for the "right moment". Your inner compass is already in your hands. It's time to allow yourself to embark on the most exciting journey — the journey to your true self.
