Step 1
How to Manage Peak Happiness:
Use an Arousal Scale to Stay Grounded

Why Peak Experiences Feel Too Intense:
How to Stabilize Your Arousal Level
Imagine the ocean. Sometimes it is almost completely still — a gentle ripple on the surface, nearly calm. Sometimes steady, confident waves roll across it. And sometimes a storm hits, and enormous tsunami waves crash onto the shore, sweeping everything in their path.
Our inner "ocean" of positive (joyful) states follows the same laws. It has its own "calm" — a barely noticeable, gentle background. It has its own "ordinary waves" — the everyday joys and pleasures we know well. And it has its own "tsunamis" — peak, ecstatic experiences so powerful that they completely transform our perception of reality.
Most of us go through life not noticing the "calm" and feeling afraid of the "tsunamis." We are used to swimming only in the zone of "ordinary waves." In this Step, we will draw a complete map of all the intensity levels in our positive "ocean" and learn to navigate at any depth.


